{"id":8955,"date":"2023-06-15T11:45:40","date_gmt":"2023-06-15T10:45:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thekateoutdoors.uk\/?p=8955"},"modified":"2023-06-15T18:05:02","modified_gmt":"2023-06-15T17:05:02","slug":"discovering-purpose-in-life-5-top-tips-plus-how-to-find-ikigai","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thekateoutdoors.uk\/discovering-purpose-in-life-5-top-tips-plus-how-to-find-ikigai\/","title":{"rendered":"Discovering Purpose in Life: 5 top tools plus How to Find Ikigai"},"content":{"rendered":"
Finding purpose in life can seem elusive, especially if you’re in midlife and thinking that everyone else has their s*** sorted, or you\u2019re telling yourself, \u201cI should know this by now\u201d…<\/p>\n
Having purpose<\/strong> and direction<\/strong> in life contributes to happiness<\/strong> and wellbeing<\/strong> according to psychologists, the NHS and mental health charities.<\/p>\n Here in the UK, government stats show that levels of life satisfaction are lower today than pre-pandemic. (Read more HERE<\/a>).<\/p>\n The Japanese have a word for it – Ikigai,<\/strong> which roughly translates as;<\/p>\n More on this later.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n I like this brief explanation; \u201cmake sense of life and our roles in it\u201d.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n Purpose in life – the…<\/p>\n \u201caspirations that motivate our activities\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n (Ivtzan et al., 2016 – source HERE<\/a>).<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Having purpose in life is the reason you get up in the morning.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Here are some of the best tools I\u2019ve shared with people I\u2019ve worked with in my life coaching practice. I use them personally too, as they’re useful check-ins for clarifying my direction.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n Allow your mind to wander and reflect on your passions, values, and strengths. This process of self-reflection will provide valuable insights and clues into what truly matters to you.<\/p>\n Then, get your thoughts onto paper and note your insights and next steps.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n I used a similar exercise when I was trying to work out what else I could do if I left my career in HR. Strengths, skills, values<\/strong> and more.<\/p>\n It’s super practical and you can keep going back to it. Use this download HERE<\/a> and get scribbling!<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n The unfamiliar can make us nervous – our brain tells us \u2018it\u2019s safer not to\u2019 and let’s face it, it\u2019s easier to stay home, stress-free than go out. I invite you to leave your comfort zone and try something new or different to change it up.<\/p>\n If the nerves kick in when you’re about to try a new thing, ask yourself this simple question;<\/p>\n <\/p>\n And really go through the worst that could happen – get familiar with your fears (as they stop us from doing the things we really want to do). <\/p>\n Connecting with others in need, being part of a community and offering something you are good at with no expectation in return, is humbling. Volunteering for a cause (perhaps you already do) that means something to you, provides a focus on others\u2019 needs and an alternative perspective on what else is going on in the world.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Dr Carol Dweck<\/a> coined ‘Growth Mindset’ through her research. To find your purpose and direction, it\u2019s essential that you recognise the different mindsets you take on. A growth mindset<\/strong> allows for personal growth and development. A fixed mindse<\/strong>t limits your potential.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Read more about growth mindset in a previous blog, where I skilfully resisted IKEA meatballs (!), HERE<\/a>.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n\u2018a passion that gives value and joy to life\u2019.\r\n\r\n<\/span><\/pre>\n
Want to get out of bed on\u00a0Monday morning with a spring in your step?!<\/h5>\n
Read on\u2026<\/h5>\n
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Meaning in life or Purpose in life?<\/h2>\n
\nMeaning in life – how we…<\/p>\n5 Tools to Help you Find Purpose in Life<\/h2>\n
1.\u00a0 \u00a0Self-reflection for self-awareness<\/h2>\n
Coaching questions for self-reflection:<\/h5>\n
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2.\u00a0 \u00a0Try new things<\/h2>\n
Tips to try new things:<\/h5>\n
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What\u2019s the worst that could happen?<\/em><\/span><\/pre>\n
\nWrite it out on paper for perspective.<\/p>\n<\/h2>\n
3.\u00a0 \u00a0Contribute to a cause greater than yourself<\/h2>\n
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4. Cultivate a growth mindset<\/h2>\n
Tips to cultivate a growth mindset;<\/h5>\n
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