{"id":8920,"date":"2023-05-12T11:07:46","date_gmt":"2023-05-12T10:07:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thekateoutdoors.uk\/?p=8920"},"modified":"2023-10-29T16:27:12","modified_gmt":"2023-10-29T16:27:12","slug":"at-a-crossroads-in-life-5-powerful-tips-to-chose-your-path","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thekateoutdoors.uk\/at-a-crossroads-in-life-5-powerful-tips-to-chose-your-path\/","title":{"rendered":"At a crossroads in life? 5 powerful tips to chose your path"},"content":{"rendered":"
4 minute read with resources<\/em><\/p>\n It’s not uncommon to find yourself at a crossroads in life. And if you’re in midlife, the ‘midlife crisis’ can seem very real; feeling stuck, unfulfilled, or unsure which path to take. The great news is that there are plenty of options available to help you.<\/p>\n Here are some life coaching tips that I notice are useful in my work, to help make sense of this pivotal time of change.<\/p>\n When we take time to pause, we rest and digest – essential for the parasympathetic nervous system<\/a> to perform its basic functions.<\/p>\n Rest..;<\/p>\n We know that if we’re not well rested, we don’t operate well; moody, tired, make mistakes, feel on edge – the list goes on.<\/p>\n This article<\/a> talks about the importance of taking breaks for wellbeing.<\/p>\n Taking a pause – a break –\u00a0 may be challenging if you’re feeling overwhelmed or feeling stressed. Here are some practical options about what it could look like for you;<\/p>\n <\/p>\n By resting we put ourselves in a stronger position to make better decisions and be a nicer person inside and out.<\/p>\n I run a group Walk and Talk for Midlife Women in Beckenham Place Park. Check out my Pause Outdoors collab here.<\/p>\n <\/a><\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n Having paused, you\u2019ve started to reset. Now to work out what really matters to you. These are your VALUES – your guiding principles on how you live your life and are unique to you.<\/p>\n Getting clear on your values enables you to notice;<\/p>\n If your values – what\u2019s important to you, are not present, you might feel discombobulated (my favourite word!). By doing this work, you might find clues that indicate why you feel like you\u2019re at this crossroads in midlife.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Email me if you’d like an exercise on identifying your values, here<\/a>.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n You\u2019re at this crossroads in midlife, you\u2019re clear on what\u2019s important to you and you choose your best path…;<\/p>\n What does your life look like now? (!)<\/span><\/p>\n Visualisation can be powerful<\/strong>.<\/p>\n You might have a really clear picture of where your future lies, or a sense of how you want to feel, or a lifestyle you\u2019ve dreamed of but never articulated\u2026<\/p>\n Studies have shown that people who visualise themselves flexing a muscle achieve actual physical strength gains<\/a>.<\/p>\n
\nMaybe you’re considering a career change or life change or thinking, ‘is this how I want the rest of my life to be..?’<\/em>.<\/p>\n1.\u00a0 \u00a0 Take time to pause (rest)<\/h2>\n
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Benefits of taking a break<\/h3>\n
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2.\u00a0 \u00a0 Work out what matters – values<\/h2>\n
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Being aware of your values can give you;<\/h3>\n
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3.\u00a0 \u00a0 Have fun – imagine what your life could be like!<\/h2>\n